Hi everyone!!
Today’s post is basically my opinion on how to choose the one who chooses your heart.
Today’s post is basically my opinion on how to choose the one who chooses your heart.
I think some of my best friends are so close to my heart
because we share the same values. So through the years we’ve just had our own
life experiences and now we are here. Where we definitely know what we don’t
want. And it’s truly amazing to get here in one piece.
So this is an open letter to my friend…and to all girls who
can identify with it.
I know almost nothing about love. So this is a bit out of my element. Never really been
in love either so I don’t know what it’s like to jump off a roof like that hoping that he will catch you. I guess I’ve just never put so much trust in anyone. Never mind a guy. I just don’t have the courage to do that yet. So this is just some background.
in love either so I don’t know what it’s like to jump off a roof like that hoping that he will catch you. I guess I’ve just never put so much trust in anyone. Never mind a guy. I just don’t have the courage to do that yet. So this is just some background.
But through all the years in high school and 5 years of
university I’ve learnt some valuable lessons through the eyes of my friends’
life experiences.
Today I think I’ll look through the eyes of my one best
friend.
Love comes in all shapes and personalities. People just
express themselves differently. My mom always says that as girls there are
certain things that we just can’t live without. Or go the whole day without
hearing. And we’re all different in this regard. We want to hear that we are
loved and we want people to tell us things that they’ve noticed that make us
unique. Like how they see that you’re stressed/upset/worried without us knowing
that we were reacting that way. Or hear them say something you thought went in
the one ear and the out the other. Or when they surprise you without a reason
or randomly pick you up for coffee/ a random walk.
Having grown up conservatively and I guess under difficult
financial pressure we’re just obsessed with finding someone who can take care
of us. We can take care of ourselves, ofcourse, that’s why we worked extra hard
in school to make something of ourselves. So I guess on the way we just want to
stop carrying the world on our shoulders and just kick back our heels and
briefcases and have a glass of wine brought to us now and again. Is that really
too much to ask? Lol!
I just think that now we need be free. We know what we want
so instead of looking for it we should be careful not to let it pass by in
pursuit of something perfect. Love is not something we find, it’s really
something we create. Just like the SELF. And I’ve truly learnt that the hard
way. And it was through the journey of trying to find myself that I came to the
realization that I need to re-create.
Same with love. Walk away if it doesn’t bring you what you
need (which is like the hardest part)
in order to sustain happiness. Life is still happening. And I’d just prefer
going through it with my best friend who’s also looking for happiness. And has lots of it to give.
Share your experiences with me!!
Comment with your links below – I would love to read your
story!
Xx
Jabi
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