Hi everyone!
So this idea came to me recently when I was talking to this
stubborn guy who recently got a care package from a girl who likes him but he’s
just to self-obsessed to notice which is really sad. But there are a lot of
guys out there (warning-do enough research) that would actually not only
appreciate the gift but will totally get the hint!
So let’s get started. First you have to know what you want
you want. Or you need to know what the outcome will be or how you want the
outcome to be. And second make sure that the person is not already seeing
somebody. We just don’t do that. And thirdly you have to be really
light-hearted about it because you have no idea how it’s going to turn out!
1.
Care packages
Even though I would strongly advice against
these, with the right guy or girl it could really be a game changer. The first
thing that’s super attractive in a care package is all the effort that goes
into it. It can be a box or a basket and what it consists of is ultra-important
because it reveals the amount of effort that it required. So it can be a
combination of small treats or maybe a basket of make-up products or
accessories.
2.
I think there’s nothing more personalized that
souvenirs because they tell you that you were on their mind while they were
away from you. Especially right before one of you makes it official. This quite
tricky because they can also range from too small/generic to excessive/over the
top. So depending on how long you’ve known the person and how progressive you
little fling has been will determine which gift you should get or which one you
can expect.
3.
Textile
I personally don’t like it if people buy me
shoes or clothes mainly because I like deciding what to get by myself. And it’s
quite a process. But I know some people love to see what kind of heels someone
would get them or generally what’s trending that season like biker jackets or
things with fringe stuff on it. I think in this regard you must really know the
person’s style in order to get them the best gifts. It’s like getting them a
fragrance. I like fruity/floral scents so I would like something in that range
because sandalwood and cinnamon makes me feel sick. So in your time of flirting
it would help to sort of project your friend’s style/preference.
4.
Practical gifts
The beauty of the flirty stage is that
you’re getting to know each other. That will also actually determine if you
guys like each other. Because if he’s not that into you you’ll be able to see
by his lack of interest during this stage. The best thing about getting to know
another person is when they seem to complain about one thing. It can be
something around the house. Like lightbulbs which you can help her with or it
can be how he eats steak everyday in which case you can make him an alternative
meal or treat him to lunch(I choose the latter because I could use an
alternative meal plan all together!
5.
Letters
I know how bad this option can be and I know
there’s only 1% of guys on Earth to understand the sincerity of a written
letter (also e-mails now). I don’t know what’s wrong with me but I like
everything written. People say the worst things but I feel like when you write
there’s no time so say bad things. Even if it’s not my friend’s thing I would
want him to know that it’s my thing.
A bit of TMI with that last one but I thought it would add
some personality to this list of recommendations! What do you guys think? What
has been your experiences?
Love,
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